I never said they had to be virgins. On the contrary, a strong man is more willing to marry a woman with a past if she is not his one and only lifetime option. For example a man may make a former "bad girl" wife #4 but would never make her his one and only. Now I know many beta men would do this, but that isn't going to make her happy because she wants a strong man. And yes, a man will have to truly "be a man" to make thins work and keep everyone in check. I think you make a good point on the domestic violence, I hadn't thought of that. Lastly, while I don't agree with I'm on everything, I like Tate, and think he a positive force in the world.